英语翻译Two students started quarreling at school．One student shouted dirty words at the other and a fight began．　　What can be done to stop fights like this at school?In some schools,the disputants(争执者)sit down with peer mediators

英语翻译Two students started quarreling at school．One student shouted dirty words at the other and a fight began．　　What can be done to stop fights like this at school?In some schools,the disputants(争执者)sit down with peer mediators
英语翻译
Two students started quarreling at school．One student shouted dirty words at the other and a fight began．
　　What can be done to stop fights like this at school?In some schools,the disputants(争执者)sit down with peer mediators．Peer mediators are students with special training in this kind of problems．
　　Peer mediators help the disputants to talk in a friendly way．Here are some of the ways they use：
　　1．Put what you think clearly,but don’t say anything to hurt the other．Begin with“I feel…”instead of“You always ."
　　2．Listen carefully to what the other person is saying．Don't stop the other person's words．
　　3．Keep looking at the other person's eyes when he or she talks．
　　4．Try to see the other person's side of the problem．
　　5．Never put anyone down．Saying things like“You are foolish”makes the talk difficult．
　　6．Try to find a result that makes both people happy．
　　Peer mediators never decide the result or the winner They don't decide who is right and who is wrong．Instead．they help the two students their own“win-win”result．A“win-win" result can make everyone feel good．
　　Peer mediators’work is often successful just because it gets people to talk to each other．And getting people to talk to each other is the first step in finding a“win-win”result．

英语翻译Two students started quarreling at school．One student shouted dirty words at the other and a fight began．　　What can be done to stop fights like this at school?In some schools,the disputants(争执者)sit down with peer mediators
学生在学校开始争吵.一个学生喊脏话和其他战斗开始.
怎样才能停止战斗,这样在学校吗?在一些学校,纠纷（争执者）坐下来与同侪调解.同侪调解学生受过特殊训练的在这类问题.
同侪调解帮助争论者友好的交谈方式.这里有一些方法,他们使用：
1.把你想清楚,但不要说任何伤害对方.就用“我觉得……”而不是“你总是.”
2.仔细听别人所说的话.不要阻止其他人的话.
3.一直看着对方的眼睛时,他或她说话.
4.尝试看看其他人的问题.
5.不要把任何人.说：“你是愚蠢的”使说话困难.
6.尝试找到一个结果是使人快乐.
同侪调解不决定结果或赢他们不能决定谁对谁错.代替.他们帮助两个学生自己的“双赢”的结果.“双赢”的结果可以让每个人都觉得好.
出现调停者往往是成功的因为它让人们彼此交谈.让人们彼此交谈的第一步是找到一个“双赢”的结果.

两个学生在学校开始争吵。如果一个学生骂了脏话，那么两个人就开始打架了。
怎样才能阻止此类吵架？在某些学校，打架双方不得不接受同伴调解员的调解。同伴调解员是指那些在此类问题上受过特殊训练的学生。
同伴调解员帮助争执双方用友好的方式进行交谈。他们使用的方法有：
1。清楚的表达你的想法，却不说出任何伤害另一方的话。以“我觉得……”而不是“你总是......”开头。
2。仔...

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两个学生在学校开始争吵。如果一个学生骂了脏话，那么两个人就开始打架了。
怎样才能阻止此类吵架？在某些学校，打架双方不得不接受同伴调解员的调解。同伴调解员是指那些在此类问题上受过特殊训练的学生。
同伴调解员帮助争执双方用友好的方式进行交谈。他们使用的方法有：
1。清楚的表达你的想法，却不说出任何伤害另一方的话。以“我觉得……”而不是“你总是......”开头。
2。仔细倾听另一方的陈述。不打断他的话。
3。当另一方说话时，一直看着他/她的眼睛。
4。尝试站在另一方的角度上看问题。
5。不轻视任何一方。“你真蠢”之类的话会让谈话很难进行下去。
6。尝试找到一个令双方都开心的结果。
同伴调解员不判决结果或输赢。他们不裁决谁输谁赢。相反，他们帮助两个学生得出自己的“双赢”的结果。“双赢”会让每个人都很开心。
同伴调解员的工作经常会取得成功，仅仅因为它让双方彼此交谈。让双方彼此交谈是取得双赢结果的第一步。

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